By Tonia Twichell
(November 2016) Evenings were the hardest time.
Bill Krissoff, MD
At his orthopedic practice in
Truckee, Calif., Bill Krissoff, MD, could immerse himself in his
patients’ injuries. But thoughts of his son, Nate, were never far away.
Nate Krissoff, a musician and athlete with a love of poetry, enlisted in the
Marine Corps after the attacks of Sept. 11, 2001. In December 2006,
three months after arriving in Fallujah, Iraq, he was killed by a
“I didn’t have problems operating or seeing
patients, as I thought I might,” Bill Krissoff says. “But time in the
evening was tough for both my wife and me. Things quiet down and you
have the chance to feel the loss.”
The disconnect crystalized one
day when a patient came in with a common complaint: a knee injury that
was hindering his enjoyment of running.
“He said he couldn’t run
a full marathon – only 22 miles … We talked quite a while, but when I
finished seeing him I thought ‘This just really isn’t that important in
the great spectrum of things.’”
At that moment, the path to a late-life Navy career began.
Krissoff, a 1972 graduate of CU School of Medicine who was recognized in May by the CU
School of Medicine Alumni Office with the Silver & Gold Award,
considered other options like international aid work and public health,
but his career change became clear on a hike near Tahoe with Lt. Col.
William Seely, Nate’s commanding officer in Iraq, who was touring the
country visiting families of those killed under his command.
asked about medical care for Marines on deployment, and Seely told him
about the Navy battalion surgeons who are always with the troops.
“I thought that was what I wanted to do – a Navy doc caring for Marines in combat,” Krissoff says.
second visit, this one from then President George W. Bush in August
2007, got the wheels moving. Krissoff had already talked to a Navy
recruiter, who told him that he would need an age waiver to enlist and
that would be unlikely at his age – 60.
So when Krissoff, his
wife, Christine, and younger son and Marine officer, Austin, were
invited to meet with the president, who was visiting families of the
fallen, he decided to make his move.
“At the end of the meeting he asked if he could do anything for the families. I was the last to speak and I told him I wanted to join the Navy Medical Corps, but I had been told I was too old.
looked right at my wife and asked what she thought. He clearly did not
want to get into the middle of this. He also asked Austin, who was
visiting from Camp Pendleton. Austin was a little skeptical but he
thought his dad would probably do fine.”
Bush said he would see what he could do.
Two days later the Navy recruiter called. “He was kind of laughing and said he had my age waiver.”
and background checks flew by and on Nov. 17, 2007, a little less than a
year after his son was killed, Krissoff was commissioned a lieutenant
commander in the Navy Medical Corps.
To Iraq, Afghanistan
Nate and Bill Krissoff in 2004 at Marine Officer Training
School in Quantico, Virg.
would compel a 61-year-old civilian physician to walk away from a
thriving orthopedic practice in a beautiful part of the country to join
“I think in most families Dad inspires sons,” Krissoff says. “In our case, sons have inspired Dad. I was ready to put on a uniform and serve.”
Put simply, he says, he wanted to take care of injured Marines, sailors and soldiers.
“My son Austin and I decided we were going to complete Nate’s unfinished work,” he says.
family understood, as did a couple of close friends. A fellow physician
and Navy veteran cautioned against it. (“He told me I was crazy.
But an interesting thing happened during his training and deployments. He kept running into Nate - by way of those who knew him.
trend started in Okinawa. Nate had trained at Camp Schwab. Krissoff was
stationed nearby, so he stopped in, hoping to find people who knew his son.
He did. And, bonus, others knew Austin.
“It was very ironic that my training took me there. How unlikely was that? The chances of that happening are virtually nil.”
kept happening. Krissoff was deployed near Fallujah in February 2009
at the same time as Austin, who put his dad in touch with Marines who’d
A deployment to Afghanistan in February 2010 repeated the pattern.
wouldn’t go a week in the chow hall without someone seeing my name tag
and telling me he was deployed with Nate or Austin. They always wanted
to share something about one of them that stuck with them. What they
remembered about training, what music they liked. Nate had a good secret
life he didn’t tell Mom and Dad about – his nights out on the town with
other Marines. I heard a small portion of that.”
Krissoff knew Marines were tight, but now he was part of their family.
didn’t have to explain myself to Navy doctors or the Marines I worked
with. They were just happy to have me on board. I was never
He felt closer to Nate, knowing that he was sharing
many similar deployment experiences. The seven-month tour in
Afghanistan was intense – Krissoff was primary surgeon or assistant on
225 trauma surgeries.
“We just did not stop. We worked. Then we
ate and slept and worked some more. We were totally focused on taking
care of Marines and Afghans. We took whoever came.
“It was the most rewarding time in my orthopedic career.”
Six is enough
Krissoff was 67 when his age waiver ran out.
Promoted to commander, he was offered another deployment, but six years seemed like enough.
certainly did not expect to be that active in orthopedic surgery well
into my 60s. But I wouldn’t trade it for anything. It was an honor and privilege to serve.”
70 years old and retired, he is doing the things he has always enjoyed –
reading, skiing, traveling and kayaking. But he spends time with
Marines, too. The day after an interview for this story in late July he
planned to go on a rafting trip down the Grand Canyon with injured
He has fielded several calls from older physicians who
want to join the military. He is encouraging but makes sure they
understand what they’re getting into.
“If you deploy, the physical
challenges are significant. You’re not just doing medicine. You are
living in an austere environment. I slept for months on a cot in a tent with nine other surgeons. It’s not for everyone. There’s nothing normal about deployment.
think that’s what my Navy colleague was thinking when he discouraged
me. He wanted to make sure I really understood deployment medicine. You
might like the outdoors but this is entirely different.”
In an interview for a civilian publication, a reporter asked Krissoff if he was seeking closure through enlisting.
closure is really for those who have never lost a son or a daughter.
That’s a cliché. It doesn’t have anything to do with reality. Losing a
child means your family is changed forever.”